all is fair in love and war.

all is fair in love and war.
i cant decide if i believe that.
because its not fair.
its not fair that i feel this way about you.
and its not fair that every time i take that first step.
taking my guard down and letting you in.
i get hurt.
not just hurt. but pretty much murdered.
my mom accuses me with giving my whole heart to people.
much too fast.
and im starting to see what she means.

if you read any of my other posts. youll see that i use music to represent some of my feelings. well most of my feelings as a matter of fact. and the song that i listen to now while dealing with this new found hurt of mine. christina aguilera. you lost me. not all the song completely matches the situation. but a lot of the lines in the song state my feelings exactly. "she has won. now its no fun. weve lost it all. the love is gone.and we had magic and this is tragic" "i feel like a worlds been infected. and some how you left me neglected. we found our lives been changed. babe. you lost me." "and we tried oh how we cried. we lost ourselves. the love is died.and though we tried. we cant deny. were left as shells we lost a fight." is there ever a point where, even though it hurts. you just need to give up and move on. because i think i might be at that point. because this time the more i think i about you the more it seems to confuse me and hurt me. and i cant deal with it.

you see.

i honestly felt like this was different.

i thought maybe this time we could make it work.

i was so happy.

like i always am.

when you are in my life.

you get me. you really know me.

and we have so much fun.

but i guess sometimes that is just not enough.

you had me so excited with what we really could be.

honestly.

i do want you to be happy. 

and if you are happy.

then its time for me to pick up.

and move on.

goodbye.